Normal feelings vs. bipolar disorder
It's normal to experience a range of emotions and feelings in our lives. How we feel can be affected by the things going on around us, our friends or family, stressful events, or sometimes by nothing at all. Ups and downs, or changes in mood are normal and generally don’t cause too many problems.
Young people in particular can experience changes in mood as part of normal adolescence and this can make it difficult to know when your young person might need help.
What is bipolar disorder?
Bipolar disorder is a type of mood disorder in which people have prolonged episodes of low mood (major depression) and of abnormally ‘high’ or elevated mood (mania or hypomania).
These episodes disrupt a person’s life, interfering with their thoughts,emotions, behaviours, relationships, and day-to-day functioning. Most people who developbipolar disorder will have experienced some symptoms by the age of 25.
The experience of bipolar disorder is different for everyone. Some people have only one or two episodes and then never have another one, while others have several episodes close together. Some people have years without symptoms between episodes of becoming unwell. Often a depressive episode (or episodes) occurs before a manic episode is experienced.
A manic episode is a prolonged period of elevated (‘high’) or irritable mood and a noticeable and abnormal increase in energy levels and activity.
Manic episodes last at least one week and typically cause severe disruptions to a young person's day-to-day life.
When a young person is experiencing mania they may present with a combination of:
Elevated mood – feeling euphoric, 'high' or 'on top of the world', or very irritable.
Reduced need for sleep – sleeping very little without feeling tired.
More energy, activity and drive – having lots of projects or plans, walking long distances, being always 'on the go'.
Racing thoughts and rapid speech – thoughts jumping around from topic to topic,speech that is difficult for others to follow.
Being dis-inhibited – people are more likely to engage in high-risk behaviours that are out of character and potentially harmful, including sexual risk-taking, driving too fast, abusing alcohol or other drugs, or spending large amounts of money.
Inflated self-esteem – ranging from uncritical self-confidence to grandiose beliefs (e.g. believing they have special powers or talents).
Psychotic symptoms – not being in touch with reality, and having hallucinations, delusional ideas, or disorganised thinking and speech
Whether these experiences are pleasant or frightening some young people experiencing mania may be reluctant to get help. They may not believe that they are unwell or that they need treatment. They may also be feeling very suspicious and/ or confused making it hard for them to trust others.
A hypomanic episode is a milder form of mania that lasts for at least four days.
The symptoms are less severe and there are no psychotic symptoms. Hypomanic episodes may feel enjoyable for the individual as they can experience more confidence and an elevated mood. Some individuals will manage to keep functioning without any significant difficulties but others will progress to experience a full manic episode. Even if a young person’s hypomanic symptoms are not distressing it is important to let a mental health professional know.
A depressive episode is a period of lowered mood, with changes in thinking and behaviour that lasts for at least two weeks.
Typical symptoms of depression include:
Feeling low in mood
sadness, irritability, tearfulness
Losing interest in things that used to be enjoyable
Changes in appetite and weight – eating more or less than usual, gaining or losing weight rapidly
Changes in sleeping patterns – trouble falling or staying asleep, or sleeping much more than usual
Lowered energy levels and lack of motivation
Feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness
Poor concentration and memory problems
Thoughts about suicide
Types of bipolar disorder
There are two main types of bipolar disorder: bipolar I ('bipolar one') and bipolar II ('bipolar two').
These categories are based on the symptoms reported by the young person as well as the observations of others including family, friends or health care-workers. An additional form of bipolar disorder is cyclothymia,which is a milder version of the disorder.
A person with bipolar I disorder will have had at least one episode of mania. Usually the mania is so severe that they will need admission to hospital to keep them safe. They will usually have had depression at some time as well.
A person with bipolar II disorder will have had at least one episode of hypomania (the less severe form of mania) as well as at least one depressive episode. Depressive episodes can be severe and the instability of mood individuals experience can cause a great amount of disruption to their lives.
A person with cyclothymia (or cyclothymic disorder)experiences changes in moodthat are less severe than thosein bipolar I or II. Even thoughthe symptoms may be lesssevere, it can have a significantimpact on a person’s functioningand can be challenging to manage.
It can be difficult to establish whether a young person has bipolar disorder, especially in the early stages of them becoming unwell, and a person’s diagnosis can change over time. A proper diagnosis from a health professional, a general practitioner (GP) or a psychiatrist is important for the young person to get the right treatment.
Families can provide vital support for young people with bipolar disorder
Watching your young person experience severe changes in mood and behaviour can be distressing and confusing, especially if their behaviour is out of character or is dangerous.
Bipolar disorder often develops at a time when young people are becoming independent from their families and taking on adult responsibilities e.g. moving out of home. When they become unwell they might have to move back home, stay at home for longer than they were planning, or need to be cared for by their family/carers. This can sometimes be humiliating, frustrating and demoralising for a young person.
Some strategies that might help you communicate with your young person without increasing everyone’s stress include:
try to listen and understand their point of view
avoid shouting, criticising or other inflammatory language
take 'time out' if a situation is escalating and come back to it at a later time
keep language specific and clear, especially if they have been having difficulties concentrating or remembering things
try to solve problems together with your young person, rather than telling them what to do
Looking after yourself
Supporting a young person experiencing bipolar disorder can be challenging. Family and friends often neglect their own needs because they are busy looking after others, or because they feel guilty taking time for themselves. It’s important that while you take care of someone, you also look after your own mental health. Looking after yourself will also encourage your young person to do the same. Check out our tips on self care for family and friends.
Early treatment can reduce the effect of bipolar disorder on their life, reduce the risk of future episodes and improve the chance that treatment will be effective.
If your young person has had a positive experience with a family GP in the past then that’s a good place to start when looking for help. Local community health centres and headspace centres can also provide assistance. For online and phone support, you can contact eheadspace.
Appropriate medication is a key part of treatment for bipolar disorder. Psychological therapies are also important to help the young person to work on challenging negative thoughts and feelings, encourage them to stick with treatment, manage anxiety and importantly, identify ways to improve overall health and wellbeing.
These strategies usually include:
having regular patterns of sleeping and eating
learning to manage stress
avoiding alcohol and other drugs
keeping in contact with friends and other supportive people
getting a good balance between rest and activities
learning to recognise 'warning signs' that they may be becoming unwell.
If your young person doesn't want to get help but you are concerned about them, contact a health professional to get further advice and support. Speaking to your GP, contacting your local headspace centre or eheadspace for online and phone support is a good place to start. Seeking advice on how to help your young person to access treatment is important.
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Last reviewed 25 November 2021