Tips for looking out for yourself and your friends online
Over the past year, the internet has brought us together to work, learn, socialise and share more than ever. However, as wonderful as it is there’s lots of things online that can greatly effect a person’s mental health and wellbeing.
It's important to think about how our use of the internet effects us and the people around us, and what steps we can take to look after ourselves online. For #SaferInternetDay Cyber Cats ambassador, and Cats Vice-Captain, Jordan Ivey met with headspace Geelong Youth Ambassadors, Tori and Kyle, to chat about what they will start the chat about in regards to staying safe and happy online. Find more info on their tips below or find more tips at esafety.gov.au.
Jordi- If I think a friend is not okay, I'll ask them how they are doing.
If you notice your friend doesn't seem like themselves, reach out and ask them how they're going. Things you might notice are;
- Change in tone; if your friends posting a lot more or a lot less than usual or their types have posts have changed.
- Withdrawing; if your mates left a group chat or stopped replying to messages, check in on them.
- Posting late at night; are you waking up to snapchats from your friend from 2am? Not getting enough sleep or not being able to sleep can be a sign someone's mental health is struggling
- Sad, angry or distressed posts; if your friend is posting posts with a sad, distressed or angry undertones it might be that they need support.
It's important to trust your instincts, if you thinks somethings wrong it probably is, check in on your friends if you are worried about them. If you're unsure about how to reach out to a friend check out this article on supporting friends.
Kyle- I'll talk about consent with my friends
Consent is just as important in the online space as it is offline. Although sending nudes, or 'sexting', can be part of a respectful, consensual, relationship often people can feel pressured to send nudes or have images re-shared without their consent.
Our Youth Ambassador, Kyle, is taking the opportunity today to talk to his friends about the importance of consent in the online space. The importance of not pressuring someone into sharing intimate images, knowing that it's not okay to share an intimate image of someone else and knowing that you have the power to say no.
If you have had a video or photo shared of you online make sure you seek support, you can contact the headspace Geelong team by calling 5222 6690 or submitting an online referral form.
You can also report it to the eSafety Commissioner who can help get the image removed and, in some cases take action against the perpetrator.
Tori- I'll remind my friends that it's not "just a joke"
Banter is meant to be light-hearted and friendly, but sometimes it can be taken too far, or escalate into bullying behaviour. You might not have intended to hurt someone’s feelings, but what you thought was friendly banter, could be considered bullying to someone else. Here is how you can help keep it friendly;